{"id":3373,"date":"2025-04-22T12:23:27","date_gmt":"2025-04-22T10:23:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yunoni.nl\/therapy\/deliberately-apart\/"},"modified":"2025-05-28T16:53:14","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T14:53:14","slug":"divorce-counseling","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/yunoni.nl\/en\/therapy\/divorce-counseling\/","title":{"rendered":"Divorce counseling"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Divorce counseling (with children) – Respectfully wrap up and reconnect as parents<\/h2>\n

Sometimes moving on together is no longer possible. Yet breaking up does not have to mean that everything breaks down. Divorce is a profound process that involves loss, confusion and often sadness or anger. Especially when children are involved, this transition requires not only the unraveling of a partner relationship, but also regaining a workable and respectful partnership as parents. <\/p>\n

In divorce counseling, I offer guidance to (former) partners to carefully seal their relationship. We create space to reflect on the pain, breakup and mourning that often accompany a divorce. At the same time, we look ahead: how can you continue to work together as parents for the sake of the children? How do you prevent unspoken tensions or old hurts from continuing to disrupt communication?[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1748253598319{padding-bottom: 25px !important;background-color: #F6F3EE !important;}”][vc_column css=”.vc_custom_1575970423449{padding-top: 110px !important;padding-bottom: 61px !important;}”][vc_row_inner row_content_width=”grid”][vc_column_inner width=”1\/2″ offset=”vc_col-lg-6 vc_col-md-12 vc_col-xs-12″][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1748290946406{margin-bottom: 27px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

Methodology<\/h2>\n

As a certified SCHIP practitioner, I work with the SCHIP approach as a compass in these pathways.<\/p>\n

A significant proportion of divorces escalate into a fighting divorce. This is rarely a conscious choice of the partners themselves. Children often get caught up in the fight, and even professionals sometimes no longer know how to help. The focus is then mainly on the conflict, while the underlying loss aspects of the divorce are barely considered. <\/p>\n

Divorce generates grief. Yet this mourning is usually experienced individually, and not infrequently ignores what both partners have actually lost. It is precisely this missed joint processing that makes it more difficult for parents to find a new form of cooperation. Divorce counseling can help to acknowledge those deeper layers. <\/p>\n

The SCHIP approach offers a different perspective for this. It is a post-relational grief process that you go through together. Not as partners in the relationship, but as partners in parenthood. Because even if the love relationship ends, the connection as parents remains – and deserves careful attention.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1\/2″][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1748291171450{margin-bottom: 27px !important;}”]<\/p>\n

The SCHIP approach<\/h2>\n

SCHIP is the acronym for:<\/p>\n